Breast Cancer Survivor

Breast Cancer Survivor
"We cannot direct the wind but we can adjust the sails"

Family photo November 2008

Family photo November 2008

Thursday, January 31, 2008

Chemo Treatment #1

Erica made it through her first 4 hour chemo session today. She came home light headed and had a little nausea. They put 4 different anti-nausea meds in her IV during the treatment and she had her percriptions at home for nausea along with a list of others. It was so hard seeing her not being her spunky self. She'll need the most spirit lifting words from loved ones during this phase of treatment. They said her side effects will start in 24 hours and last about a week. Keep her in your prayers and keep the comments coming on her blog. Phone calls and cards are welcomed as well. Angela

Wednesday, January 30, 2008

Thanks for Everything!

I just wanted to say thanks to everyone for the loving support and words of encouragement. I'm going to start posting over here now so that my posts get saved too. I'm feeling better about the Chemo, well, until tomorrow...hopefully I'll sail through without any issues. I get my first inflation today so I'll update this weekend on how that went and how the Chemo experience was. Love, Erica

Sunday, January 20, 2008

Erica's Past Week

The last week has been improving some but still has different types of pain as the nerves and muscles are trying to heal. She is just taking it easy and still confined to the bed other than coming to the table for meals and sitting up in the living room short periods of time. I spent all day with her today. Company is what she needs the most so feel free to call her. Angela

Wednesday, January 16, 2008

Look At Right Corner

Check out the right hand corner for Erica's personal updates from time to time, if there isn't anything on the blog part that's why. She's still being a trooper and still has that spunk.

Monday, January 14, 2008

1st Post Op Appt

Today Erica met with her oncologist and everything looked good. She is just ordered to rest more after over doing it a bit yesterday. For sure she will have 6 Sessions of Chemo which is about 4 1/2 months long. She meets with her Plastic Surgeon on Wednesday and will hopefully be able to take out the drains they left in. Everyone else is holding up well and just wants her to heal. Angela

Saturday, January 12, 2008

2nd Day at Home

I saw Erica this afternoon. She looks really good, sitting up in bed and was watching a movie. The hardest part now is just letting everyone take over with the boys and staying in bed. I know she's getting bored. By the end of the visit it was time for another pain pill and in about 30 mins she was ready for her nap. She slept all night last night. She has her first post op appt. on Monday afternoon. Her mom and sister are doing such an awesome job taking over. She is truly blessed to have them both by her side.

Friday, January 11, 2008

Erica's Evening

Erica is doing great. She said the pain is still there but mostly really sore, not too unbearable. She said she's really happy with the incisions and the doctors. She still sleeps a lot with the pain meds right now. But the most important news..... they called this afternoon to let her know the lympnodes came back negative after the extensive testing. Thank God! She is such a trooper and pushing straight forward.

Erica is Home

Erica got released from the hospital today and is happy to be going home. Still has awhile till she's up to speed but nothing is like being home. Angela

Thursday, January 10, 2008

Erica Last Night

Erica called me briefly last night while waiting for Jason to bring back her dinner. She said it does hurt but she still is sleeping majority of the time. Just keeping the morphine button close at hand. I was just in shock she could have the energy and strength to call. Just once again confirms the power in her and the power of all our prayers. Love Angela

Wednesday, January 9, 2008

Out of Surgery

It's 11:29 CentralST and she is out of surgery! Both doctors said everything went as planned!! Erica is doing good still sleeping and relaxed. I'll give an update this evening. Angela

Update on Surgery

I'm so excited to let everyone know both lympnodes they removed for testing came back negative in surgery. They will still have a more extensive pathology report done on them and back in a few days. But all is going smoothly. The plastic surgeon has just begun the reconstruction phase at this time. I will update again today on how Erica is doing once she wakes up. She's still looking at a painful recovery but I know she will be so relieved all was negative in surgery. All the prayers are paying off!!!!!!!! Love Angela

Friday, January 4, 2008

This is for my wonderful friend that I know would give her all to anyone that was in her position. I know she is on everyone's mind and I hope this will help ease worries and questions thru her journey of recovery. We all know how strong she is as a mother, friend, wife, daughter, sister, and just as a person. I know she will make this battle look like a piece of cake. Love Angela

How it all began......

Welcome to my website! This site was created by my wonderful friend Angela to keep everyone I love updated on my “Journey” beating Breast Cancer.

I was diagnosed with Breast Cancer on December 19, 2007 @ 4:30 in the afternoon. It was quite possibly the worst phone call I’ve ever received. The doctors kept telling me that I was “too young”… it’s probably just a cyst or a fibroid (benign tumor). So, I had convinced myself of the same. Imagine my shock and fear when the doctor said “I hate to tell you this, but it IS cancer.”

I didn’t really know how to react. At first I cried a little. Then, I was ok. Then cried some more, then, ok. It wasn’t until I saw the surgeon and learned of the best option for survival, a double mastectomy, that I really broke down. I had a meltdown for a couple of days and then I was fine. I’ve been pretty good with it ever since. I know that I can beat this sneaky disease and I will live a long life with the loves of my life; my husband Jason, and my 2 boys, Will & Nathan.

Jason had a hard time at first. He just kept thinking the worst, that I wouldn’t make it. He’s doing much better now that we’ve seen all the doctors and the prognosis is good.

The kids don’t really understand. Will (who’s almost 4) thinks mommy is having an operation, that’s it. Nathan just turned 1 so he just wants to be held all the time. That will be the hardest thing on me. I love to hold my babies and I won’t be able to pick them up for awhile.

Thankfully, my mom, Kathy, has come to the rescue. She is here as long as we need her. I am truly blessed to have such a wonderful mother and family. My sister is coming from Alaska, pregnant and all, to help out too. My dad is coming back soon and Jason’s parents, Rick & Jan along with his whole extended family are just a phone call away if I need them. Unfortunately, my brother, Steve can’t come although he wants to. I even have my friends from Maine that want to come and help! Thank you Christina and Nikki for offering. My friends here, Angela, Oti, Julie & Niki are all on standby also. They’re ready at a moments notice for whatever we need. I love you all, I can’t say how good it makes me feel to be loved.

Everyone I know is praying for us which is so wonderful. I appreciate all the prayers. Only God knows what will happen but I’m confident that he will pull me through.

Anyway, I hope you log on to find out how we’re doing down here in Texas. My surgery is January 9th @ 7:30 a.m. I’ll be in the hospital for 2 nights.

I hope this site can help anyone else who gets this horrible disease, although I pray that none of you ever have to experience it.

Love to all!
Erica